Welcome Karen,
Great sugggestions here from everyone. Being here is a great start. I have little to add, but I urge you to find one thing you can do (possibly one of the free things offered here), and stay focused.
For me, I wasted many months (and lots of $$) spiraling off in many different directions trying to do a lot of things half-baked while I had one thing that was doing well (my website) which I had pretty much abandoned because of all my new projects. I also did a Mitch (2 posts up because I wanted to learn everything and put it all into practice. Why? Because I was trying to
force the WAH money to come rolling in. I thought I could be Lynn Terry in 6 months. Well that was a rude but humbling awakening, cause that definitely wasn't happening!
It takes time and effort. And I was a complete newb with no experience at all. I have done a 360 in this department and now I work at my site and it is doing well.
I wish the very best for you. And we're all here for you.
Don't ever give up!!
Lisa