Yeah, I realize it's a lot. Just re-read it if you have to.
Here's a shorthand list of what you can do, then:
1. Gain access to your account with TotalChoice (skip this if you can log
in).
2. Ensure your domain's contact info is updated. Do so if you have to
(again, skip this if it's already updated)
3. Ask TotalChoice re: transferring out. Be as specific as you can.
Howard, I just checked ICANN's list of accredited registrars and WWD is
listed among them. I guess that means they're not a reseller for GD...
Shel, like Howard said, better to have your domain with an actual registrar
and your hosting elsewhere, if need be, especially if you are now growing
beyond what your hosting provider currently gives you...