Dan,
I don't use OE but I have it on my PC so I looked up the help:
Open OE
Click on "Tools"
Click On "Account"
Click on "Mail"
Click on "Add"
Click on "Mail"
Add YOUR Name - Dan?? heh heh
Click "Next"
Add Email Address -
whatever@yourdomain.com (net, org, etc)
Click "Next"
Email Server Names = POP3
Incoming Mail (POP3) = get from your hosting provider (usually something like, "mail.yourdomain.com" or just "yourdomain.com")
Outgoing Mail (SMTP) = usually most use their ISP's SMTP address (which, in your case would be your cable services provders). Something like "mail.cox.net", as an example. Check with your ISP for sure.
Click "Next"
Account Name: Usually with CPanel they use up to the first 8 characters of your domain name
Password = what your web host provided you or what you changed it to.
Click "Next"
Click "Finished"
So ... When you open you OE just do whatever you do to "Check Mail" and it should download your mail from your server.
Hope I got this right!!!
Rick Wilson aka CorpRebel
P.S. If all else fails .......