Hi Deb!
"Do I use Fantastico to install Wordpress or is it better to download it from the Wordpress site?"
Sometimes the wordpress site has a more up to date version so it could be worthwhile to download it from there...
Me, I'm lazy and I'm not a techy so I'd just go into cpanel, hit Fantastico and install WP from there.
It will only take a couple of minutes-just make sure you write down the master password and username you use when you install. Once I saw an onscreen message that promised I'd get an email with this info and so I did not write it down...never did get that email, so I had to uninstall the blog and start again!
BTW once you have installed WP you have to choose a theme. I generally google "alex King, wp themes" ( no relation !) then you will need to ftp it. either get a friend to do this or contact me- I have just written a short guide (free!) to ftp, charmingly called, "What is FTP and is it for me?"
Short answer is "Yes it is!"
Secondly you ask about the range of CMS available. I have spent a month being tortured by JOOMLA but really I'd say "forget it!"
WP is the only human friendly CMS I know of and you are using that as your blog. Now if you want an "ordinary" website with unchanging or static pages you can use a system called "staticblogging" just google it - I'm not sure if I'm allowed to post a URL here.
staticblogging is the invention of Christy & Stacie, buddies of Lynn and lots of forum members have it.
This is as easy to use as ordinary WP - it is WP but has very special plugins to convert posts into pages.
I've bought it but have to finish a couple of projects before I sit down and use it
The forum you can install after you have the site and blog sorted out. I have just installed my first forum. it is easy peasy. You just choose which type of forum - usual choice phpbb, some people prefer SMF.
This choice should be inside the fantastico area
Don't sweat it!
I had to learn how to delete **** posting from my forum this morning! It's non stop learning on the internet that's for sure
Lastly you mentioned Xsitepro. Most people who recommend xsitepro have not used it. They have superb promotional videos but it has a substantial learning curve and creates sites with very poor code- I had a LONG struggle with it and was only rescued by an expert seo guy who reviewed my site. As soon as I rebuilt the site with Frontpage the PageRank of the site jumped from 0 to 3! Same site!
My advice - avoid this like the plague!
The simplest way to build a website is to use WP for blogs and staticblogging for standard websites.
Hope that helps!
Alex