83camaro,
Where do I start
I registered here at this forum just because of you to reply!
Buddy, you need to believe, believe in yourself, believe in what you are doing.
Proof! What other proof do you need people are making money doing what you are setting up. Remember you are building a business it takes time. Do you open a pizza shop and sell 100 pizzas on your first day? Well you are near Buffalo so you may sell chicken wings too! BTW I am from Tonawanda
Anyways, want my honest opinion? You have yourself spread way to thin.
Start with 5 sites MAX, you cannot work on more than a few at a time.
You don't want to write articles? Why not? They drive traffic! Look at some of this guys articles, he makes A LOT per month from Adsense mostly from article traffic. He started small and built from their, at first he was doing all the work but branched out and now has people write articles for him.
http://www.ezinearticles.com/?expert=Tim_Gorman
Tim is an awesome guy.
Second you need some SEO help
I suggest you view my free video at seoalchemy.com
Shoot me a PM with any questions you may have or post here and we will answer them for you.
Oh yeah you might want to change web hosts, yours are on SORBS blacklist, Google doesn't like that from my extensive testing.
Derrick